Thursday, October 4, 2007

"STAGED KINDNESS"...


The Staged Kindness concept popped in my mind after a trip to New Zealand. Residents there are world-renowned for their kindness. And they did indeed seem to be especially kind-hearted.

But why are they that way? Certainly it cannot be their genes. In my Cognitive Science studies at UC Berkeley, I remember reading papers that suggested that people within groups tend to adopt the characteristics of their group. For example, subjects in an "elite" task group will perform faster than those assigned to the "dunce" group. Even if both groups were identical in skill.

It makes perfect sense then to suggest that New Zealanders are friendlier because that is part of their group characteristic. They think of themselves as being friendly, so they are.

This begs the question: how can we get Americans to think they are friendly? For a long time we've been exposed to nightly news reports of youth violence, murders, robberies, road rage on the rise. We rarely hear anything about people being good to one other. As TV shapes more and more of our world, the picture it paints becomes our group characteristic. We start thinking we live in a world of angry people. And this shapes how we react to and interpret the actions of people around us.

So we're quicker to jump to anger - thinking that the person who just cut us off on the highway did it on purpose out of malice. So we react in anger, by honking, or worse, acting more aggressively. This other person sees your actions, and this further defines how they see their group characteristic. Their unconscious mind accepts that Americans, like them, are an angry lot.

It's a spiral of anger that can only lead us to a world like that depicted in Blade Runner. That doesn't sound very good to me.

We could keep our eyes open for the perfect moment to play the kindness card - but these moments are far too rare and hard to spot. Besides, people within the spiral of anger are suspicious of acts of kindness - thinking you expect something from them in return. After all, Americans like us aren't kind without expecting something, right?

What we need to do instead is create a situation where the people giving and receiving the kind act are in alliance. We can stage kindness anywhere, anytime, in any way. It's fun to do, completely safe, and may just indeed improve the world. Because as people see acts of kindness around them, they will think the people in their community are kind. So they will be too. Because people in their community are friendly, and they're part of that group.

Let's pretend to make the world a better place.


Thursday, July 12, 2007

“The Life You Were Meant To Have: Lessons on Living with Purpose and Clear Intent”

Photo taken by Roby Westland in Santiago Chile, October 2006, next to The Statue of the Virgin Mary on Cerro San Cristobal in Parque Metroplitano. Story by Roby Westland 11 July 2007

Creating a life you love and bringing dreams into reality takes effort. It takes courage to look at your life. Resolving to take inventory of what is working and what isn’t requires honesty and diligence as well. Yet if done with care and compassion, a life review can help you understand where you’ve been and what you learned so far. It can also help you identify the lessons that you will carry with you to help you along your way. Taking inventory can also help you realize what patterns are no longer serving you and will help you see what steps to take to overcome undesired circumstances and release old ways .

What do you want to give your attention to? Are you able to identify your true desires? Are your desires crystal clear or are they fuzzy and vague? The Universe works in a very organized fashion. Your thoughts and intentions come together rising up from your true being-your soul. If you really have no idea what you desire then certainly a process of elimination (illumination) is in order.

Simple Steps to Take: Act, Believe, Receive.

ACT.

Start by getting into a quiet place. Clear your mind and then one by one count your blessings. No matter who you are, there are many. Consent to being generous in return. Be gentle with yourself. Surround yourself with positive loving energy. Allow yourself to feel relaxed and peaceful. Remember to be thankful to the Universe for all your blessings and then focus your attention on what you’d like to create. Do not focus on what you do not want—that only serves to bring it about. To create a life you love, you must give it your full attention. Always remember that energy flows where attention goes. Pay special attention to thoughts and ideas that come to you because they truly are answered prayers. Look beyond the surface and see the underlying order of your dreams and take mental notes.

Next access your power of intention. Be clear about what you desire and focus on it with unwavering faith. Intention is not abstract or vague. Intention is very clear, concise and powerful. Focus on your highest priorities which will help you get motivated and inspired. Using the power of intention you will manifest blessings into your life. Notice loving guidance you hear from other people and from deep inside your heart. Learn to measure thoughts energetically accepting that if you feel heavy when you think about one thing or another chances are you need to move on and if you feel light chances are your intentions are resonating with your soul. Align yourself to it. Healing, manifesting, creating miracles will become genuine possibilities and probabilities when you connect to your power of intention.

Clear your space. Getting rid of clutter and chaos will clear the energetic force fields around you. Find time to go outside and get some fresh air. Connect with nature to relieve stress and gain new ideas. Being in nature renews your spirit and revives your energy level. So does having a clean environment.

Let go of your old fears. Recognize that fear is faith in reverse. One thing is for certain, no one has ever received the spirit of fear from God. To overcome your fears, identify what your fears are and then systematically resolve to separate them, acknowledge them, embrace them, surround them in healing white light, them bless them and send them on their way. Fear is (False Evidence Appearing Real). Timothy 1:7 says that “God has not given us a spirit of fear; but of power and of love and of sound mind. Faith on the other hand is the substance of things hoped for; evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1.

Meditate. Find a nice, quiet spot where you can relax and meditate at least 20 minutes a day. Mediation is an integral part of becoming receptive to the messages of the Universe. Once you have learned how to contain your mind’s chatter with meditation, you can use this tool to ask for divine guidance. Note: You do not receive what you do not ask for. So ask!

Pray. Prayer is a powerful direct link between you and the Universe. By praying we acknowledge God’s power and goodness and our own neediness and dependence. It is therefore an act of the virtue implying the deepest reverence for God. Prayer presupposes faith in God and hope in his goodness. The use or habit of prayer redounds to our advantage in many ways. Besides obtaining the gifts and graces we need, the very process elevates our mind and heart to a knowledge and love of Divine things, greater confidence in God, and other precious sentiments. Indeed, so numerous and so helpful are these effects of prayer that they compensate us, even when the special object of our prayer is not granted. Often they are of far greater benefit than what we ask for. In addition to these effects of prayer, we may merit restoration to grace. "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find: knock, and it shall be opened to you" Matthew 7:7 "Therefore I say unto you, all things, whatsoever you ask when ye pray, believe that you shall receive: and they shall come unto you." Mark 11:24

Forgive yourself: It doesn’t matter if you've chanted a million Hail Mary's or made a pilgrimage to the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem or done all Twelve Steps five times over, you will simply not be released from a history (notice I did not say past:) that has repeated and repeated and repeated itself...until you COMPLETELY forgive yourself...neither does it make a bit of difference if you've discharged your debt to society and paid your dues to those who have made it possible for you to have gotten as far as you have... unless you reimburse yourself for all the grief you have caused…yourself!

Clear away obstacles and bring your intentions to fruition. Make the time needed to achieve your intention a reality. Support your intentions with light and love. Be flexible. Be willing to let go. Surrendering control to your higher power is very liberating and you may be pleasantly surprised at the relief you experience. Understand that timing is everything. Use positive affirmations every single day. Go with the flow. The Universe will be ready when you are! And finally, choose life! The realm of infinite possibilities includes choosing life (Living In Faith Everyday), choosing to lived inspired (In Spirit) and choosing to feel good (to feel God). Accept that all pain comes from resistance and all resistance comes from a separation of God. It is that simple.


BELIEVE.

Belief is the psychological state in which an individual is convinced of the truth of a proposition. Like the related concepts truth, knowledge and wisdom, there is no precise definition of belief on which scholars agree, but rather numerous theories and continued debate about the nature of belief.

In the book, ‘Your Heart’s Desire” author Sonia Choquette says that “your beliefs create the landscape of your experience by imprinting the subconscious mind with directives. Each belief you accept is embraced by the subconscious mind as a command, which the subconscious then sets about following. It doesn’t argue. It doesn’t change the order. It doesn’t talk you out of it. All is says is, “Yes, yes, yes.” Then it tries to fill your order.”

It is important to put forth the effort to define our belief systems through conscious, rational thought and logical deliberation. We have to consider our current values, examine our lives, establish a new set of values, and adjust these values as we grow, to accommodate future decisions and further growth. If we allow our subconscious mind to accumulate unanswered questions and unrelated information, we will process new information to create unwarranted conclusions, false generalizations, undefined contradictions, unidentified wishes, doubts, and fears thrown together by chance into a mass of confusion called 'self-doubt.'

A solid belief system provides you with a set of core values that mature with your experiences and knowledge. By organizing experiences, you are better able to organize how you handle future experiences. Organized experiences provide you with a sense of accomplishment because your perspective is one of success and control as opposed to having a morass of disconnected and confusing memories. By connecting knowledge and experiences through existing knowledge, you can associate situations with previous knowledge, and gain additional knowledge as you move through life.

According to Alex Paterson in “Belief Systems” Feb. 2001, The author Robertson Davies was even more brutally honest in his book 'The Deptford Trilogy ' (p477), when he said: "Be sure to choose what you believe and know why you believe it, because if you don't choose your beliefs, you may be certain that some belief, and probably not a very creditable one, will choose you." What all this means is that a person should embrace ideas and beliefs that sit well with him or her at the present time, whilst keeping in mind that as awareness about reality expands with the advent of new experiences, so must one's concept of reality change accordingly.”


RECEIVE.

Sometimes receiving God’s gifts and graces comes in planned, small steps methodically accessed and systematically executed and sometimes it shows up with a loud boom. I typically expect the latter! No logic behind that thought just how I perceive its arrival. Fear and worry will not work. The never have. So it’s time to try extreme faith. Perhaps it's beyond time to get back to our roots. With faith, the wings will come.

There are multitudes of choices because there are multitudes of people. You hold within you a Universe, and within that Universe are layer upon layer of infinite possibilities. It is your choice whether you go deep or expand out the largest galaxies of your perception. All possibilities live within you and living is a great gift. It is an end unto itself. To not enjoy it would be a sin.

Think of it this way, picture yourself as a loving Mother, who—no matter what she does for you, no matter how much love and pleasant things with which she surrounds you—has a sullen, angry child that refuses to enjoy her gifts. How would that make you feel? Not a pretty thought is it? So enjoy, set clear intentions, embrace your inner divinity, live your life to the fullest, receive your gifts, give thanks and praise for your many blessings. Thank God for that double vanilla latte’ and juicy grilled steak and the glorious evening sunset spent with friends. Be happy and be well. Wish others well too. And hey, here's one last little secret, this place called Earth is an amusement park for both your body and your soul. If that concept doesn’t work for you, perhaps an encounter up close and personal would be enough to convince you... this is the life you were meant to have.

Many blessings to all!

Hugs,
Roby

Friday, June 29, 2007

"The World As I See It"...An Essay by Einstein

"How strange is the lot of us mortals! Each of us is here for a brief sojourn; for what purpose he knows not, though he sometimes thinks he senses it. But without deeper reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people -- first of all for those upon whose smiles and well-being our own happiness is wholly dependent, and then for the many, unknown to us, to whose destinies we are bound by the ties of sympathy. A hundred times every day I remind myself that my inner and outer life are based on the labors of other men, living and dead, and that I must exert myself in order to give in the same measure as I have received and am still receiving...

"I have never looked upon ease and happiness as ends in themselves -- this critical basis I call the ideal of a pigsty. The ideals that have lighted my way, and time after time have given me new courage to face life cheerfully, have been Kindness, Beauty, and Truth. Without the sense of kinship with men of like mind, without the occupation with the objective world, the eternally unattainable in the field of art and scientific endeavors, life would have seemed empty to me. The trite objects of human efforts -- possessions, outward success, luxury -- have always seemed to me contemptible.

"My passionate sense of social justice and social responsibility has always contrasted oddly with my pronounced lack of need for direct contact with other human beings and human communities. I am truly a 'lone traveler' and have never belonged to my country, my home, my friends, or even my immediate family, with my whole heart; in the face of all these ties, I have never lost a sense of distance and a need for solitude..."

"My political ideal is democracy. Let every man be respected as an individual and no man idolized. It is an irony of fate that I myself have been the recipient of excessive admiration and reverence from my fellow-beings, through no fault, and no merit, of my own. The cause of this may well be the desire, unattainable for many, to understand the few ideas to which I have with my feeble powers attained through ceaseless struggle. I am quite aware that for any organization to reach its goals, one man must do the thinking and directing and generally bear the responsibility. But the led must not be coerced, they must be able to choose their leader. In my opinion, an autocratic system of coercion soon degenerates; force attracts men of low morality...The really valuable thing in the pageant of human life seems to me not the political state, but the creative, sentient individual, the personality; it alone creates the noble and the sublime, while the herd as such remains dull in thought and dull in feeling.

"This topic brings me to that worst outcrop of herd life, the military system, which I abhor...This plague-spot of civilization ought to be abolished with all possible speed. Heroism on command, senseless violence, and all the loathsome nonsense that goes by the name of patriotism -- how passionately I hate them!

"The most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious. It is the fundamental emotion that stands at the cradle of true art and true science. Whoever does not know it and can no longer wonder, no longer marvel, is as good as dead, and his eyes are dimmed. It was the experience of mystery -- even if mixed with fear -- that engendered religion. A knowledge of the existence of something we cannot penetrate, our perceptions of the profoundest reason and the most radiant beauty, which only in their most primitive forms are accessible to our minds: it is this knowledge and this emotion that constitute true religiosity. In this sense, and only this sense, I am a deeply religious man... I am satisfied with the mystery of life's eternity and with a knowledge, a sense, of the marvelous structure of existence -- as well as the humble attempt to understand even a tiny portion of the reason that manifests itself in nature."

Albert Einstein

to Kindness, Beauty, Truth...and all the Sublime mysteries of Life!!!

Hugs,
Roby

Real Estate at the Speed of Light

Photograph "Saguaro Holding Sun" White Tank Mountains. West of Phoenix, AZ. Copyright Frank Zullo at Zullo Photography at http://www.zullophoto.com/2232.html

Article reposted with Marc Davison, the author's express permission.


In the time it took to read this sentence:

A new idea was born.
A new innovation that will change the world just emerged.
A new business registered.
A new way of thinking is now viral.

A speed-of-light change is coursing through every industry. Each has its own examples of those who are part of the movement. They come in three forms: the map makers, the ship captains and the willing passengers. Each depend on the other.

Every industry also has examples of those who chose not to be part of the movement. They come in three forms: Disbelievers, the stubborn and the uniformed.

Real estate is on the fast track of change. Like every other vertical, it too has its share of map makers and disbelievers, ship captains and the uninformed, willing passengers and the stubborn.

What category do you fit into?

New Worlds

I've been short on sleep lately. If you're a sailor you'll understand why. The winds of change blow steadily at 30 knots. I'm Columbus out on the Web's open seas. Looking for new worlds to discover.
New ideas to grab onto and cultivate. What a time to be alive.

My RSS reader chugs along pouring hundreds of new articles a day into my engine. I carry the Web in my palm so I don't miss a thing.

What kind of life is that? I find it exhilarating. Besides, what's the alternative? Wading in the shallows? Staying tied to the dock? Being blissfully ignorant? I can't imagine that. Not now. The consequences are too high. Information is freedom. Freedom from dependency. Freedom from manipulation. Freedom to form your own opinions rather than be influenced by the masses. Freedom to succeed while others wonder how.

Tending the Garden

I plant seeds. I consider my registration on new 2.0 sites my little contribution to the online garden where seasons change daily. I willingly sign up for sites that capture me for all the right reasons -- where the benefits are obvious. I join a network, mingle with fellow humans, participate in history in the making.

Many of the sites I've joined have grown mightily. I feel as if I am part of the solution, part of the future, a viable member of a worldwide community that enacts change.

I'm a dreamer as well. I believe that one day social networks, due to the mass participation from humans all over the planet, will drive massive and positive change worldwide. At the very least, it further flattens our world and opens up channels to do business with people we otherwise would never meet.

Look What I Stumbled Upon

Awhile back I stumbled upon Stumbleupon.com while customizing my Firefox browser. It has enabled me to search in ways that Google can't by connecting my searches to related places recommended by other StumbleUpon users. It's a referral network where people like me help each other make sense of the world. I assume you already know that.

In a way this is the start of Web 3.0 -- the combination of search with the collective knowledge of a community.

What does this mean for real estate?

Are you being StumbledUpon? How many people are tripping into your gardens and spreading your seeds out to others? How many of your sites are growing into towering beanstalks? Being spread virally across the fertile soil of social networks that attract boomers like me down to your next client 20 years from now?

How many of you are shriveling from a lack of fertilizer and water?

Real estate brokers and agents want to be at the center of the transaction. Cool. What are you doing about it? Real estate search begins on the Web where it appears only 65 percent of industry professionals have established some sort of presence (usually a poorly designed vanity Web site geared toward "capturing" consumers.)

Here's the opportunity: Millions of consumers are out there on the Web, planting seeds like me. They are connecting, stumbling upon others for referrals.

Imagine a real estate version of StumbleUpon where the home-search paradigm factors in age, gender and special interests. Results would be ranked, tagged and guided by other site users.

Imagine a StumbleUpon agent finder. StumbleUpon Brokerages. StumbleUpon Neighborhoods. The possibilities are endless.

You can sit and imagine (and look at what they are accomplishing), remain blissfully unaware or build something of your own. If you do build something, I'll be among the first to sign up. Judging by the success of past sites I've discovered and signed up on, it seems l have a green thumb.

Marc Davison is a founding partner of 1000watt Consulting www.1000wattconsulting.com
He can be reached at marc@1000wattconsulting.com

Thursday, June 28, 2007

Must Rehab Beliefs....

I recently came across an article called, "Real Estate at the Speed of Light". You can copy this link and read it for yourself if you'd like. It can be found at http://www.inman.com/hstory.aspx?ID=63678.

So I was very inspired by this story and the story writers technique in conveying a "serious" message in an un-serious manner helped drive the point. I dont like being preached TO. Never have, never will, but this story "stuck" with me all day. So, I was lead to email the articles owner, Marc Davison of 1000watt Consulting. I didn't get too windy (honest I didn't) but I did share some of my thoughts with him. He wrote back! Go figure right? Nonetheless, when he writes me back..so begins the electronic trek to not only his website but also to another one that he touts as well. I am sharing this information with you now because here I am 24 hours later, busier than hell, but still thinking about all of these people, places and things. There must be something to that!

In his "story" Marc says and I quote, "In the time it took to read this sentence: A new idea was born. A new innovation that will change the world just emerged. A new business registered. A new way of thinking is now viral.

The speed-of-light change is coursing through every industry. Each has its own examples of those who are part of the movement. They come in three forms: the map makers, the ship captains and the willing passengers. Each needs the others.

And every industry has examples of those who chose not to be part of the movement. They come in three forms: the disbelievers, the stubborn and the uniformed.

Real estate is on the fast track of change. It has it's share of map makers and disbelievers, ship captains and the uninformed, willing passengers and the stubborn."

End of quote...

And I left this article with an overwhelming thought of...Hey you know what? It's all true! Sometimes we get so bogged down in the business of doing business, that even if we started out as a map maker or ship's captain or even a willing passenger (key word willing, which for me means a duplicate set of keys in my hand for rapid escape when needed), we forget who we are, why we are here and the reason we came here in the first place. I have experienced this myself. And it's no easy task to simply "change your mind, change your life", because things just don't happen without effort and for some of us, the thought of having to drum up another ounce of effort just cannot be done.

Maybe we are where we are, in this space and time because of certain circumstances. Maybe it's because of (extreme) boredom. Maybe it's because of a lack of passion, a feeling of being burned out because for whatever reason you were doing "it" ...it all just seemed to fizzle. Or maybe...and here's the biggie...you just plain dont give a damn anymore! I can certainly understand that too! So if by some strange, magical coincidence (yeah right) I was lead to this article for no identifiable and reasonable reason, I think it was a good thing after all. It did made me think, it did make take the time out of my very busy self-induced BS schedule to access another human being's thoughts, feelings and personal point of view....and somehow at the end of the day, I felt refreshed. Like a little micro-holiday. This is why I am writing today, because maybe if this affected me, it will affect you. Maybe all you need right now is just a little micro-holiday or a breath of fresh air to get it all going again. An infusion. Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying. You need an infusion and you need it fast but I ain't talking about caffeine baby! LOL

So, here's the opportunity folks. Go to http://www.1000wattconsulting.com/, (or simply click the green link in the title above) check out Marc's website, explore the services he and his professional team offers, defintely read the blog. Maybe leave your mark on society and contribute something to this blog. You never know if something you say or do makes another person's day or sparks an idea that'll forever change the world! Personally, I believe that this is how all great things come about! Education or elimination, there's no doubt about it!

I also found another cool article on the 1000watt blog today that has also made me think. I may post that entry next. Also, go check out a cool tool that Marc Davison recommends at http://stumbledupon.com. I did and I found an architectural website that inspired me in just a few minutes. If architecture isn't your gig, that's okay, check it out anyways, the photgraphy is awesome. Go to http://www.thecoolhunter.net/architecture/ to find out what I'm talking about. They roam the globe so you're in the know! Very cool stuff!

The fabulous and very unique artwork of the 'Sidewalk Chalk Guy' is also incredible and darn sure worth a moment of your time. Have a peek at http://gprime.net/images/sidewalkchalkguy/ you will be amazed and dazzled! I promise.

So in closing, let me say this...Get inpired by whatever means it takes. Just do it! Do it today, tomorrow is never promised! Get branded or re-branded. Start something or quit something. Give something away! If you spend your time thinking about others, chances are you won't have time to think about yourself. Pump up your juices again. Start a new trend. Be a pioneer. Give yourself a new message to think about. Stop telling yourself you're not worthy! You Are!!! Hey! Float your own boat. Why not, there are no "rules" about that. And if there are, break 'em! Thats' what rules are for right? And for the love of Pete, (who is Pete anyways?) LOL...tell that negative Nelly in your life to piss off and go away!

Be the captain of your own Universe, you don't need a boat to do this! Just get up, go out and do something new to get it all going again. You have it in you! I know you do! Be happy! Be Joyful! Be silly! Smile! When was the last time you just laughed? If you're having to think about this folks, it's been way too long! Find your passion again unless of course you never had any and in that case my very best recommendation would be for you to ignore every single fabulous thing I just wrote about and go out and kick rocks on the side of the road for a while. That'll be enlightenening! LOL

Until later, Be happy and Be well my friends!!!
As always,
Roby The Incredible! :)

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Guns, the devil and God...

This is gently borrowed and passed on from WorldNetDaily. To view this item online, simply click the link above or go to http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=55700

I liked this article very, very much.

Kind regards,
Roby :)

Wednesday, May 16, 2007
David Kupelian David Kupelian Guns, the devil and God
Posted: May 16, 2007
1:00 a.m. Eastern

The following is excerpted from the blockbuster May edition of WND's monthly Whistleblower magazine – titled "FIREARMS AND FREEDOM: Why the Second Amendment is more important than ever." See special offer below.

By David Kupelian
© 2007 WorldNetDaily.com

"Why don't you pick up that gun and blow your brains out?"

"You could kill a whole lot of people with that gun."

"Why not shoot her right now? That would shut her up!"

These are the sorts of vile mental suggestions many people experience from within their own minds when they see a gun.

That's right. Dark thoughts and impulses, too horrible to dwell upon or even acknowledge, occur to many of us at the mere sight of a firearm or a naked blade. When we see the firearm, we sense the presence of evil – so naturally we assume the gun is its source, when actually the gun's close proximity caused our own buried, angry, violent tendencies to surface for a moment.

Thus, many people who "dislike" or "are afraid of" guns are actually afraid of what they might do if they had a loaded firearm in their hand. And I'm not talking about criminal types here. I'm talking about "nice" people – nice on the outside, and lots of buried and perhaps unrecognized rage inside. Again, the presence of the gun simply causes his or her own dark, angry propensities to "stir a little" deep down inside.

But the reality of all this is too heavy and "negative" for many of us to face, so we instantly and unconsciously project our own buried violence onto the gun – as though an inanimate hunk of metal could somehow be evil.

(Column continues below)

Obviously, a loaded handgun has great potential for destruction and havoc. At the mere squeeze of a trigger there can be murder, suicide, terrorism. Even without pulling the trigger, the gun represents the magic ticket to armed robbery, forcible rape and every other form of coercion. For a person with lots of anger, albeit buried, a gun represents the shortest distance between two points – between the suppressed violent nature within him or her and the maximum expression of that nature. Therefore, the mere sight of a gun excites that dark part of us, causing it to beckon wordlessly, "Use me!"

Let's examine this admittedly scary subject a little more closely.

Have you ever stood close to the edge of a cliff, or out on a balcony of a high building? Did you notice that some "force" almost seemed to want to pull you over the edge? Most of us have experienced something like this phenomenon – a momentary loss of balance, an unexplainable fear, some mysterious pull toward the edge. We have a moment of disorientation and fear, then we pull back to safety.

I've experienced it. Last year after driving five hours to Portland, Ore., to be a guest on Fox News I checked into my hotel room, unpacked, checked over the room, then stepped out onto the balcony. As I approached the railing and looked out at the cityscape and then gazed down several stories to the ground, I noticed a distinct pull, along with a slight disorientation, as though I was losing my balance. I recovered right away and realized I was so tired and frazzled from a long day that my mind was vulnerable to the "pull" of dark forces. So I took the hint and rested a bit, until I had recovered my strength and mental focus.

In this life, the malevolent intelligence we call "evil" is constantly scanning each of us for opportunities to tempt or even destroy us. As the Good Book puts it, "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour" (1 Peter 5:8 KJV). In critical moments of the sort I'm describing, evil seizes the opportunity to give us a mental "shove." Unfortunately, for some people that "shove" is strong enough – especially after a lifetime of giving in to anger, judgment and despair – to pull them over the edge.

We'll never know how many "suicides," in which people fell off a cliff or a balcony, occurred this way – not because of a premeditated suicide plan, but because they were vulnerable to the opportunistic impulse of evil.

Similarly, how many head-on auto accidents occur every year because someone inexplicably crosses the center line to crash at high speed into another car, having succumbed to a wordless, instantaneous mental suggestion from hell? All in a timeless fraction of a second the message impresses itself on your mind: "Crash your car into that one coming your way. Life sucks. Go out with a major bang! Everyone will be shocked! You have the power! Just do it! Do it now!"

Does this scare you? If so – if this description resonates with you even a little bit – it's only because you have the same problem to some degree. Don't fret. We're all in the same boat. We're all subject to the "dark side" of the force. It's called being "born in sin." But some of us honestly face it, and quietly call out to God for help, and His help comes. Others live in denial – until tragedy and death end it all. (This is the central theme of "Spiderman 3," by the way.)

In any event, this same phenomenon is at work with firearms, because of the potential guns provide for immediate and ultimate destruction. Guns literally bring to the surface of the mind the suppressed potential for violence that exists inside every angry person.

Again, there is more than one way this discomfort around guns can be experienced. A sincere person who is uncomfortable around guns will probably be able to deduce that the problem is within him and not with the inanimate firearm. He's already on the path to getting better.

Unfortunately, many people who hate/fear guns never allow themselves to come face-to-face with the real problem – themselves. No sooner does their own suppressed anger react to the sight or even the thought of a gun, than they turn that angry emotional response into something more "acceptable" – like fear. After all, on the "niceness" scale, fear is a lot nicer than hatred.

The problem is, after our buried anger is effortlessly transformed into "fear of guns," that fear easily turns into false righteousness: "I don't like guns and have no need for them. I'm a peaceful, non-violent person and wouldn't ever shoot anyone for any reason."

Some take this "righteousness" even further: "God protects me; I don't need guns. I have faith he'll never put me in a position where I need to shoot someone." Good thing none of the Bible's Old Testament heroes like David or Joshua thought like that. They were required by God to kill many people. Who can say what will be required of us in this journey called life – whether or not we may be called on to defend ourselves or our families from a dangerous enemy?

Of course, there are many angry people who love guns. The world seems to be full of pumped-up jihadists who crave weapons, the bigger and more lethal the better; drug lords who use guns to murder judges and mayors and anyone else who gets in their way; gangbangers who pack heat so they can kill members of rival gangs; and every variety of criminal who, of course, take pains to procure the tools of their illegal trade – guns.

Unlike those who hate/fear guns as a result of unconsciously projecting their own inner violence onto them, angry people who love guns are in love with their own hatred, which they see as righteousness! The Islamic jihadist thinks he's serving Allah by murdering innocents. And predators and psychopaths of every sort love their guns because that's where they get the means to overcome their intended victims.

The God side of guns

Obviously, guns allow evil to be expressed in a multitude of ways, just as any weapon does. Everybody understands this, so there's no need to say much more about it – except that these people need to be stopped.

But what does need to be said, and shouted from the rooftops, is that in the right hands firearms also enable real goodness and virtue to be manifested – right here, right now – by opposing evil and protecting the innocent.

I'm talking now about what I'll call true Americans – not those who criminally prey on others, but also not those whose cowardice or shallowness causes them to appease bullies and to blame inanimate objects for the evil in the world and within themselves.

Whether individually or in a war, the moral imperative to defend ourselves and others is the same. And just as we all share this fundamental and undeniable right to self-defense, it follows that we also share the right to the means of self-defense, or else that supposed right is just a bad joke.

Fortunately for us, the Constitution and Bill of Rights were written and adopted by strong, right-thinking people. And the Second Amendment spells out for all to see the right of Americans to "keep and bear arms," a fundamental right that "shall not be infringed."

Today, according to the federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives, there are well over 200 million privately owned firearms in the U.S, including more than 65-70 million handguns. Approximately 45 percent of American households have firearms. That means we have 65-80 million American gun-owners, including 30-35 million owners of handguns.

This is a very, very good thing – we don't even realize how good it is. For just as it was true in our founders' day, it's true today that Americans need guns.

If you don't believe me, just consider the Virginia Tech disaster. Imagine Cho Seung-Hui walking into a classroom, threatening people with his guns, making them line up, preparing to shoot them. Now freeze-frame that scene and think for a moment: There isn't anyone or anything in this world that could have stopped Cho in his tracks at that point and averted the hellish slaughter that followed – except a single student or professor with a firearm, and trained to use it.

At the time of this nation's birth, people understood the importance of the armed citizen.

James Madison, who wrote the Second Amendment, said Americans had "the advantage of being armed," whereas in other nations "the governments are afraid to trust the people with arms." Thomas Jefferson said, “No free man shall be debarred the use of arms.” Patrick Henry said the "great object is that every man be armed. … Everyone who is able may have a gun." And Thomas Paine said, "Arms … discourage and keep the invader and the plunderer in awe, and preserve order in the world as well as property."

But today, many people would like to get rid of the Second Amendment – either by excising it from the Bill of Rights or, more likely, by judicially redefining its meaning as they have with the First Amendment (with the invention of the mythological "separation of church and state").

You see, in today's America the self-reliant, responsible, independent-minded man or woman who carries a gun – the kind of person who is aware, thinks for himself, is skeptical of government, the press and all of society's "experts" – the person not content to be a victim, but willing to take charge of a situation, "get involved," even fight back and stand up for what is right – in other words, a true American – is threatening to society's elitists, experts and politicians who are addicted to power.

As a general rule, it is liberals who tend to oppose private citizens carrying guns around with them. As I said, this is mostly because they're full of suppressed anger and therefore project their own – and others' – evil onto inanimate objects so as to maintain the denial in which they live. After all, you can't possibly believe the illogical and immoral things liberals and leftists espouse unless you're full of trauma and repressed hatred. It takes lots of inner rage to distort reality sufficiently to believe it's OK to kill beautiful little babies in their mothers' wombs or to believe a malevolent chameleon like Hillary Clinton should be elected president of the United States and commander-in-chief of the most powerful military in world history.

This same emotional confusion leads liberals to think guns are the problem, rather than being – in the right hands – the protection from tyranny and predation they truly are.

Do you know what happens when good people carry lethal weapons? Their mentality changes from passive to active, vulnerable to protective, powerless to empowered, dependent to independent. Very simply, they become more responsible – and more capable of doing good.

In fact, they make up the very fabric of a free America. This is the whole concept of the unregulated militia.

When neighbor stands with neighbor

There have always been two parts to the "militia" mentioned in the Second Amendment – the regulated and the unregulated (or the organized and the unorganized) militia.

Various laws throughout U.S. history have defined the organized or regulated militia, for instance the Militia Act of 1792, which specified that males 18 through 44 years of age "shall severally and respectively be enrolled in the militia …"

However, much more important was the founders' and framers' concept of the unorganized or unregulated militia, which they regarded as the ultimate defense of the new nation. This larger and more organic militia consisted of all able-bodied citizens. As Richard Henry Lee, a key founder during the Revolutionary period, explained in 1788: "A militia when properly formed [is] in fact the people themselves ... and include[s] all men capable of bearing arms. ... To preserve liberty it is essential that the whole body of people always possess arms." Or as George Mason famously and cryptically put it: "I ask, sir, what is the militia? It is the whole people, except for a few public officials."

Although the practice of arming oneself is very wholesome – for responsible, mature people, that is – there is one nightmare scenario we need to guard against, because history shows it leads inexorably to tyranny.

That scenario would be for angry, "right-wing, fundamentalist Christians" (more accurately, pseudo-Christian hate groups) to commit acts of terrorism or murder – like the bombing of the Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City – in the name of freedom. That is exactly what today's would-be totalitarians would secretly relish most, as it would justify their crackdown on "Christian" and "patriot" groups and gun rights across the board.

Timothy McVeigh, who thought he was advancing a patriotic rebellion against oppressive government, achieved precisely the opposite: He discredited everything he thought he was fighting for and caused many people to regard "right-wing patriots" and "militia types" as domestic terrorists.

In fact, the biggest reason President Bill Clinton was asleep at the switch with regard to Islamic terrorism, allowing Osama bin Laden to slip through his fingers even when the terror kingpin was offered on a silver platter, is because it served Clinton's leftist agenda to obsess over "right-wing" extremist organizations rather than the threat of radical Islam. Thus, Clinton disastrously focused the FBI predominantly on "right-wing hate groups" rather than task it with chasing down the many credible leads we had on al-Qaida terror plots against the United States.

If angry, would-be "patriots" engage in violence against the U.S. government as occurred in Oklahoma City, this nation could quickly move toward the suppression of gun rights and much more, all in the guise of protecting the public safety.

It's a very real temptation. Think of it: As government corruption becomes more and more brazen, as judges outlaw the Ten Commandments, as "hate crimes" laws effectively criminalize the Bible, as kindergartners are brainwashed with radical "gay rights" propaganda and so on, pretty soon some group decides it can't take it any more. Its members become so enraged, they conclude it's time to start the next armed revolution. Seeing their nation being raped and envisioning no solution other than violence, they convince themselves they're the modern counterparts of America's revolutionary founders. Training with firearms and explosives and conspiring in secret – all the while quoting Jefferson to each other about "watering the tree of liberty" from time to time with "the blood of patriots and tyrants" – they murder some federal judges or blow up a government office building in an attempt to fight back. But all they succeed in doing is murdering and maiming a bunch of their fellow Americans (or, as McVeigh did in Oklahoma City, massacring a room full of toddlers in daycare – which he later coldly termed "collateral damage").

What would follow would be a massive official crackdown on "domestic terrorists" and a severe assault on freedom in America – not to mention a major distraction from the real war against Islamic jihad.

Amazing what hatred can accomplish, isn't it? Exactly the opposite of what you intended. The dark side of the force is very clever. As the blood-drenched, hate-based French Revolution proved, when "revolutionaries" are full of hate, they're no better than the hateful, corrupt government they try to replace – and maybe worse – ushering in their own "reign of terror."

This is why true, mature Americans – the kind that must be armed – must also be self-controlled, even-tempered, virtuous and noble, not motivated by hatred and revenge. They must also stand together.

In reality, the responsible armed citizen is the strength of America. But there will always be a tension between him and his government – especially today, when the armed citizen is the antithesis of everything our culture, experts, politicians and other "leaders" teach us. In their minds, we're supposed to be helpless victims or incompetent, irresponsible, out-of-control children. We're supposed to need them to provide for us and protect us. If they could have their way, nobody would have guns except the police. But then, that's what's known as a "police state."

What we need is a rebirth of the true American spirit. We need people to take up arms in the spirit of responsibly protecting their family and other innocents, just like in the old days when everyone carried a sword. Every man had to be willing to put his life on the line to protect his loved ones. But you can't do that without your sword – which in today's world is a firearm.

One quote from Jesus we almost never hear cited these days is what He said shortly before being taken into captivity by Roman soldiers to be crucified. It was a dangerous time, and as He spoke to His disciples, He told them to arm themselves.

And he said unto them, When I sent you without purse, and scrip, and shoes, lacked ye any thing? And they said, – Nothing. Then said he unto them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one. For I say unto you, that this that is written must yet be accomplished in me, And he was reckoned among the transgressors: for the things concerning me have an end. And they said, Lord, behold, here are two swords. And he said unto them, It is enough. (Luke 22:35-38 KJV)

The police cannot protect you. Very simply, they're never there when the crime against you and your loved ones is being committed.

Do you want God to protect you? Of course. Then don't tempt Him by saying, "The Lord will protect me, I don't need a gun." That's like the man who says, "A storm is coming, but I don't need an umbrella; God will protect me," all the while ignoring the real protection God has provided for him – the common sense to get an umbrella or come in out of the rain. In dangerous times such as those in which we live today, God clearly speaks to us – both in Scripture and through good old fashioned common sense – about being prepared to protect and defend ourselves, our families and our neighbors.

As Jesus Himself said: "He that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one."

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Monday, April 30, 2007

FEELINGS PRAYER...

copyright 1998 Claudia Psychic/Healer

I had the good fortune recently to attend a seminar on the Bio Energetic Synchronization Technique presented by Dr. Ted Morter. He has a complete understanding of how your beliefs affect everything in your life. Your thoughts can be that you want success, but if your belief is not that you deserve success, you will not have it. I think this is why affirmations do not always work. You have to really believe it to make changes happen.

Changing our belief system is not an easy thing to do. Some beliefs we are born with. They have been with us for so long, affecting us every moment, that they are as much a part of us as breathing. They are so much a part of us that we have no idea they are there.

Some of the belief systems I was born with were that the world is unsafe . . . that the Universe will not provide my needs . . . that life is supposed to hurt. Some people have the belief that they are supposed to be poor . . . that nobody will ever love them . . . that love is supposed to hurt. There are as many different beliefs as there are people.

Look at what happens in your life. Can you find a pattern that shows you one of your belief systems? Below you will find a technique from a book called "Feelings Buried Alive Never Die" which may assist you in releasing these false beliefs. It may not happen right away. You may have to repeat this over and over and over before you find it making any changes, but do not give up. These beliefs can be changed, but it will take perseverance. Good luck.

Spirit, go to my beginnings and locate the cause or reason for this feeling/thought of ____(negative emotion)_____ and any similar feeling, thought or emotion.

Take my very most adult, understanding, forgiving, reasoning, spiritual Higher Self and every aspect of my being to the very first incident that caused this feeling to start. Analyze every aspect of it and heal it perfectly and permanently. Come forward in time healing each incident based upon the foundation of the first until I'm at the present filled with Light and Truth, God's Peace and Love, Forgiveness of God, Forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions, forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance and event which contributed to this feeling/thought.

With total forgiveness and unconditional love, I delete the old, release it and let it go now, permanently. I feel ____(positive emotion)____. I allow every physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual problem and inappropriate behavior based on the old feelings to quickly disappear.

Take all the time you need, Spirit, but quicken time and do the job NOW.

Thank you, Spirit, for coming to my aid and helping me attain the full measure of my creation. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! I love you and praise God from whom all blessings flow.

Rev. Claudia McNeely DD - http://www.askclaudia.com is a world renowned Psychic/Healer. She offers accurate Psychic Readings, Emotional Healing, Spiritual Counseling and many forms of Alternative Healing for healing in body, mind and spirit.

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Hugs and Blessings,
Roby

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

ONE: The Campaign To Make Poverty History


About ONE

The ONE Campaign is an effort by Americans to rally Americans . one by one . to fight the emergency of global AIDS and extreme poverty. ONE is students and ministers, punk rockers and NASCAR moms, Americans of all beliefs and every walk of life, united to help make poverty history.

The ONE Campaign derives its name from the belief that allocating an additional one percent of the U.S. budget toward providing basic needs like health, education, clean water and food would transform the futures and hopes of an entire generation in the world's poorest countries. We also call for debt cancellation, trade reform and anti.corruption measures in a comprehensive package to help Africa and the poorest nations beat AIDS and extreme poverty.

The goal of ending poverty may seem lofty, but it is within our reach if we take action together as one. You can start now by joining the ONE Campaign and pledging your voice to the fight against extreme poverty and global AIDS.

Join the ONE Campaign: http://web1.one.org/takeaction/

Time to make a difference in someone else's life and you might be surprised what it does for your own. Join!

Hugs,
Roby

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

The Spiritual Side of the Shootings at VA Tech


Reprinted on this blog with very special permission from Claudia McNeely. With many thanks to her!

The Spiritual Side of the Shootings at VA Tech
copyright 2007
Rev. Claudia McNeely DD

My heart goes out to all of those touched by the shootings yesterday at VA Tech. I ask the Angels to be with each person involved and their families to assist them through this trying time.

As the mother of a son about to enter college, the shootings at VA Tech have had a deep impact on me. The thought of my child being involved in such an incident is terrifying. We expect our young adults to be safe at all times, and it is a slap in the face when we realize they are not as safe as we thought.

I asked my Guides to explain to me why this incident happened. This is the response I received from Areal, formerly known as my daughter Samantha.

It must be remembered that all of the Souls involved agreed to share this experience. They each signed up for a role in this amazing play. They each had their part to play, their job to do, their sacrifice to be made to the greater good. It is hard to understand when something like this happens that it is for the greater good, but that is always the case. These beautiful Souls agreed to have this experience so that the World could get a glimpse of the state our Collective Consciousness at this time in history.

The children of the World are not being honored. They are being starved, killed in wars, raped and murdered. All of this goes on daily, but no one pays attention. No one thinks about how many children starve daily in Africa. No one thinks about how many children are killed in the Iraq war. No one pays attention to the news stories in the US about children who are raped, abused and murdered. Those who read the news stories think to themselves “Oh, how horrible.” but nothing is done to protect our children.

This incident is an attempt to get Humanity to pay more attention to the children, protect them and honor them. This is your future and you are allowing them to be treated with dishonor. How can you have a bright future when you are allowing the Light of these children to be extinguished?

This incident has another purpose also. Humanity is on a path to destruction at this time. The Collective Consciousness of humanity does not honor humanity, the Earth or even life itself. The Collective Consciousness is focused on removing as many rights from humans as possible. The Collective Consciousness wants more control, more laws, more government. Instead of bringing humanity together into One World built on Love, Light and Peace; the Collective Consciousness of humanity prefers to bring this One World built on fear.

This incident will allow the removal of more freedoms. Cameras will now be placed on all college campuses. There will be less freedom for the students. They will be watched and controlled. They will be fed more and more fear until they are overwhelmed by the fear.

People who are filled with fear are easy to control. They will give away their freedom without a second thought. They will follow instructions ‘for their own good’. They will cease to be Self Realized Individuals and become one of the many, one of the masses, one of the sheeple.

It will take much effort on the parts of the Indigo, Crystal and Rainbow Children to stay within their power. These beautiful Souls are here to attempt to change the Collective Consciousness. This event will make their role a bit more difficult. These Souls will have to remember what they are here for. They will have to remember always who they are and not allow the Collective Consciousness to turn them into what they are not.

This event is showing those of the Light how important it is that they come together and create safe areas for the beings of Light. There is strength in numbers, and by joining together in communities of Light, they will become stronger. This has been foretold, and even attempted by the hippies, but so far has not succeeded. The time is now for a way to be found to succeed. These communities must be formed and created now. The beings of Light need a place where they will be safe and nurtured.

The beings of Light who are now on the Earth must stand in their power and take over their World. They must put their energy into changing the Collective Consciousness to a consciousness of Love instead of a Consciousness of fear.

It is very important that those of the Light send thoughts and feelings of Love into the Collective Consciousness daily. Bombard this Collective Consciousness with as much Love as you can create as often as possible to change it from a Consciousness of fear into one of Love. This is why you are on Earth at this time. This is your purpose. Do not ask what your purpose is, it is to fill the Collective Consciousness with Love so that humanity can make this needed energy shift from fear to Love. This is how you will Ascend. This is your reason for being on Earth at this time. Do not allow this vital mission to fail.

In the Light,
Areal



Rev. Claudia McNeely DD is a gifted and caring Psychic/Healer. With the assistance of Angels, Guides and Master Healers, she will tell you exactly what she sees and feels instead of what you want to hear. Her Clairvoyant Readings are very accurate and insightful. She can help you to understand where you are, where you want to be and how to get there.

She provides accurate Psychic Readings and Alternative Healing using the assistance of Guides, Angels and Master Healers. She is certified in many healing modalities including Reiki, Hypnotherapy, and Emotional Healing. She has experience in Shamanic Healing, Transpersonal Counseling, Past Life Therapy, Entity Removal, House Cleansing and much more.

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My 55 Tries 2nd time around...

It's been a long time she thought. But for what? Time well spent with someone she actually enjoys being around, a brisk walk in the park in the crisp evening air, a sleepless night feeling passionate about something fantastic brewing in her life? Yes, she thought, it's been a long time. Wonder when that'll pass?

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Anonymous said...


When I was young I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last,someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life,would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" I know I need to change something.

Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to makeway for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

Some leading blacks nEEd to look in a mirror!
jd

April 12, 2007 5:08 PM

And I agree! Thank you for the comment jd!

Many blessings to all..
Roby

Monday, April 9, 2007

Uptight In America...


"Here's what I've learned: that you can't make fun of everybody, because some people don't deserve it," he said. "And because the climate on this program has been what it's been for 30 years doesn't mean that it has to be that way for the next five years or whatever because that has to change, and I understand that."

Okay, so he's apologized and he seems sincere. Enough!!! Give the guy a break. His whole damn career shouldn't have to go down the toilet to make amends! We have ALL opened our mouths and stepped in S--T a time or two I'm sure!

And yes, while it is quite unfortunate that Imus made a negative reference last week to members of the Rutgers women's basketball team as "nappy-headed hos"....ladies and gentlemen, we are talking about...Don Imus....THE famous American radio talk show host, best known for his sarcasm and harsh language. He's been doing this since the late 60's and to date it has been allowed and condoned even praised and awarded so why should he think it time to change? Course after the media scrutiny and the heat from Oh~ficcials across the land, he's been back tracking and well he should, but my point to this and all the other hoopla in the media over what someone says "off the cuff"...is this....Number one, maybe we ought to not be so damned thin~skinned in this country and Number two, why does the media get to dictate and/or exploit who is or is not funny, who is or is not guilty and who does or does not get to go on earning a living doing what they've always done just because they mispoke?

I AM ESPECIALLY UNFOND OF CORPORATE SPONSORS WHO CANT WAIT TO PULL THE PLUG ON BACKING AT RECORD SPEED WHEN THE CHIPS FALL A LITTLE FAR FROM THE TABLE. AND IN IMUS' CASE HIS BEHAVIOUR AND COMMENTARY HAS BEEN CONSISTENT THROUGHOUT THE YEARS AND THESE ADVERTISERS DIDN'T MIND IT TIL NOW. CURIOUS ISN'T IT? TALK ABOUT YOUR FAIR~WEATHERED FRIENDS...GEEZE...

Hey! Let the chips fall where they may folks but I think it's past time for a reality check....Humour (off~colour or not) is not a crime and all things are not funny to all people, all of the time...never has been, never will be, but that's just the way the ball bounces in America...we do have freedom of speech in this country unless of course you are a crusty, old, white guy with a radio show! (Sorry Don:) But have any of you really listened to or read or studied any lyrics from our rappers and hip~hop heroes lately? Give me a break! Talk about your double standards...Ho Ho Ho!!!

This from a short, chubby, forty something year old woman...who needs her legs waxed and her toes polished....so what would you call me? A nappy-legged toe? LOLOLOL

AAAhhh...Who cares! :) Be~lightful!!!

Cheers,
Roby

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

"Tribute To Anna Nicole...A Human Being"...

Anna Nicole Smith was an Icon. Like it or not, she was. She may not have lived her life as most people do but then again...she wasn't most people. It is that simple. She didnt drive a mini-van, have a boring, predictable, mundane life surrounded by a tired old husband, a thousand dollar a month mortgage and 2.5 kids in ballet and soccer practice. In fact, that was not the stuff her dreams were made of. I don't think that was ever even an option.

Anna Nicole was a pioneer, a fighter, a rebel, an overcomer who realized each and every goal she set out to achieve. How many of us can actually say that? She was also very smart. A graduate from "The School of Hard Knocks" but very smart nonetheless. The dumb blonde act was all a persona having nothing to do with Anna in reality. Yes! I've heard how dumb and out of it everybody thinks she was but she couldnt have been that dumb because she used every single tool she had to overcome a terribly rotten childhood, hardships most of us can't even imagine, shyness and extreme lack of self esteem and she pulled herself up by the bootstraps to become the one and only, unforgettable, American Icon, multi~millonaire that she is today. Hard to argue with that kind of success.

Even in death and with all the shrouded mysteries that seemed to plague her lately, she was a wonderful human being who was a great Mother and friend. How many examples do you think she had to go by? My guess? Not many! She was just trying to make it. I believe that she had a good heart and I believe that she meant no harm to anyone. Can you even imagine what she would have achieved if she'd had just one real friend or partner or mentor or even one single person she could actually depend upon? I can! Or how about one person who wasnt in it for the money or pseudo fame that came with hanging around her? Most of the people that gravitated to her were losers who couldnt make it in their own right and she allowed that because deep down Anna Nicole was frightened and lonely. But most times, she was very powerful and people are still afraid of very powerful people, especially powerful women, which left her with little choice about the company she kept. I'm sad that she felt lonely and tired and used. I really am. And I wonder why no one was really there for her. Someone in her sphere should have cared for her...hell there was enough of them around.

Some time this week, I heard one reporter say..."What kind of friend hangs with you for a while and then goes out and sells your life stories about your moments of weakness or vulnerability." and I heard myself say, "Yeah! Who does that?" And who does? Love and friendships may come and go, but betrayal by your own loved ones is forever and is of course, a source of the deepest kind of pain and is always very difficult to overcome.

It isn't often that I care much for or think about celebrities. Most days I dont care who gets a nose job or a record deal or who gets married, divorced or whatever ridiculous things celebs are noted for, but the moment I read that Anna Nicole was dead....I was very sad....for us...but then again happy...for her...because I know she went home to be with her son whom she loved and trusted with all her heart. God saw to it that she didnt feel that familiar pain anymore because he is merciful and forgiving...even if we cannot or will not understand that.

So, Rest in peace dear sweet Ms. Anna Nicole. Thank you for your many smiles. God speed your soul. You will be missed here on this plane. Namaste'!

Sincerely,
Roby

Wednesday, February 7, 2007

"Bliss on Bliss"...

I love this guy's photography. Click on the title to view his webpage. I think his work is very crisp and clear....and you can almost feel yourself in the room. Awesome really! There are so many completely talented artisans in the world and Thomas Bliss is definitely one of them.

Cheers,
Roby

"The Fabulous Works of Ciro Marchetti"...

A must see for anyone who loves mystic fantasy art. Simply amazing work! Click title to redirect to Ciro's website.

Hugs,
Roby

Monday, February 5, 2007

"Don't Let Congress Ruin the Internet"...

Dear Friends,

I thought you might be interested in the campaign to save Internet freedom at www.savetheinternet.com.

Unless we speak out to our members of Congress they could move to allow large telephone and cable companies to control what you do, where you go and what you watch online.

To learn more, check out the new YouTube video by clicking the tile above or by going to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWt0XUocViE

Visit the URL above to check out what's at stake and send a loud message directly to the Congress.

regards,
Roby

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

"From Namaste Cafe"...


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WHO AM I?

Imagine someone saying to you: I am your constant companion. I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden. I will push you onward or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command. I am easily managed, but you must be firm with me. Those who are great, I have made great. Those who are failures, I have made failures. You may run me for profit or run me for ruin. It makes no difference to me. Take me, train me, be firm with me, and I will place the world at your feet. Be easy with me, casual with me, convenient with me, and I will destroy every dream you have. Who am I? I am your thinking. What is your thinking saying to you? And more importantly, what kind of guidance do you provide your own thoughts?

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All the best,
Roby :)

Real estate: Who's buying now

The nation is changing. So is the average home buyer.

By Les Christie, CNNMoney.com staff writer
January 26 2007: 3:53 PM EST (click on title above for full story)

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) -- Changing American demographics and social norms are altering the real estate landscape: the average home buyer is very different compared with buyers of generations past.

The biggest group of home buyers by far is still married couples, accounting for 61 percent of all homes bought, according to the National Association of Realtors.

Monday, January 22, 2007

"What would YOU do?"...

Another one of life's lessons....

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question?... What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer. But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden; but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus:

What a woman really wants, she answered..."is to be in charge of her own life."

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.
The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened?

The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.

Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day... or night?

Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous intimate moments?

What would YOU do?

What Lancelot chose is below. BUT... make YOUR choice before you scroll down below. OKAY?

Noble Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now... what is the moral to this story?????

The moral is.....If you don't let a woman have her own way....things are going to get ugly!!!

Cheers,
Roby :)

Saturday, January 20, 2007

" Being Mindful of Madeleine"...

Today, I was thrilled to find out that one of my all time favourite singers, the lovely and talented Ms. Madeleine Peyroux, has a new album out. I have listened to samples of it on NPR.ORG and her MySpace site. Feel free to take a gander. The title above will take you to Madeleine's official MySpace page and there are four downloads to listen to there. The new album is titled "Half The Perfect World". I Love it!!!!

Cheers,
Roby